HIYA. Don't force it anymore lah. Nice means nice; not nice means not nice lo. Force also no use what. Must got own unique style. Cannot be affected by what people say. People say nice then you must folow meh? People say not nice, then you must go and change your style meh? So not special.

HIYA. Don't want to do nice nice lah. I want to do it my own way, my style. Not nice then not nice lo. You see ar, you do nice nice people come; you do not nice, people go, then you will feel sad. So ar, it is better to do all your own way, so that people won't come and then later anti-climax your feelings.

HIYA. You know ar, when people say nice right, don't be happy, 'coz after awhile right, your nice becomes not nice then people go. Human gets sian so easily. They happy happy, they come. They happy happy, they go. They not happy, also go. HIYO, really don't understand people, you know.

HIYA. People everytime say look at things from different perspective. You see from the bright side. You do nice nice, people say nice, you happy, but after awhile, they don't care, you fall into depression. You do not nice, people won't say anything, so there's no need to use any bright side to view things. You see from the dark side, you do nice nice, people say nice, but then later they don't care, you feel sad, You do not nice, they also never care. So why bother forcing things to be nice?

HIYA. So, if cannot be nice, don't force it to be nice, coz things may will not turn out the way you wanted.

Singlish is nice. Haha.